John Piper and Justin Taylor (Editors)
![[cover: Sex and the Supremacy of Christ.]](http://travis.webseitler.com/pics/20050811-satsoc.jpg)
Sex isn’t primarily about procreation, partnership or pleasure. First and foremost, it’s designed to bring glory and honor to Jesus Christ.
From the very beginning John Piper and Justin Taylor make it abundantly clear that this book will blaze a trail almost completely ignored in other "Christian sex books": namely, that if "all things" are to be done to the glory of God, and sex must logically be included in "all things," a Christian must learn how sex brings glory to God, and then seek to thus glorify him.
In the first two chapters Piper lays out and expounds on two main points: "sexuality is designed by God as a way to know God in Christ more fully," and "knowing God in Christ more fully is designed as a way of guarding and guiding our sexuality." While I was immediately ready to assent to this thesis, I was blown away by Piper’s unpacking of it. I honestly felt as if the scales had fallen from my eyes: where before I would have casually agreed with the statement, now I was overwhelmed as I began to finally understand its implications.
Chapter one opens with beheadings—not what one assumes will launch a book on Christian sexuality. But Piper has a good reason, based on chapter 5 of Matthew’s gospel: "there is something far more important than to keep your eye or your hand—or your head—namely, to receive eternal life and not to perish in hell. And Jesus links it with the war that we are waging not in Iraq but in our hearts. And the issue is sexual desire and what we do with it." While most books in this genre are—at best—books where God has been invited as a guest speaker, this is a book about God. All of the authors do a fantastic job of making sure He stays at the forefront of each discussion.
As the “book form” of the Desiring God 2004 National Conference, chapters 6-9 serve as “breakout sessions” for four groups of people: single men, married men, single women and married women, respectively. Sadly, I think these chapters fail to address much of anything in a new light; readers of these chapters will find what amounts to condensed versions of Not Even a Hint Sex Is Not the Problem (Lust Is), Sex, Romance, and the Glory of God: What Every Christian Husband Needs to Know, Feminine Appeal, and Did I Kiss Marriage Goodbye? Trusting God with a Hope Deferred — books which this title’s audience are likely to have read already, and were already listed as recommended reading for the conference. But perhaps you haven’t read those books. In that case, these chapters are excellent summations of that material (and for a fraction of the price).
Other chapters cover topics such as the goodness of sex (Chapter 3), why battling lust is so difficult (Chapter 4), how Christians should approach “homosexual marriage” (Chapter 5) and how Martin Luther and the Puritans really viewed sex (Chapters 10 and 11, respectively).
This is a book I would highly recommend for the first two chapters alone! While I wasn’t crazy about the repeated efforts of the “breakout session” chapters, they served as a good refresher, and none of this content disappointed me. Therefore, I heartily recommend Sex and the Supremacy of Christ to you.
“So, whether you eat or drink, or [make love to your spouse], do all to the glory of God.” — 1 Corinthians 10:31











